Is that you are quite overloaded with your wedding preparations and right in the middle of it you find yourself confronted with all sorts of "rules", customs and traditions that are a part and parcel of the weddings? If your situation mirrors the same then firstly you should realize that there no need to be worry and panic at all. Well, rather than giving in to the society’s demand you should simply go ahead with what you think is "right" for your wedding. You should plan your wedding in a manner that you also consider what’s trendy along with the budget considerations without digging in too much about what people might expect your big day to be like.